Oh Boy...

Why is it... that my life has this idea that the MOMENT something good happens... I get hit with a train from behind. (which is a pretty big feat for a train... considering they are loud... and big... and rumbily...)
Which is to say... i love my parents DEARLY, but i think they make some snap decisions based on not ALL the information... but that technically isn't their fault... because i keep some information from them, and i'm sure they are doing what they feel is best... but I feel that they are just sticking their noses into stuff that isn't their problem.
As many who know me can attest... i HATE confrontation of ALL kinds... its not necessarily the yelling or the tears (mostly on my part) that i hate the most... its the angry feelings that EVERYONE gets... because i feel like its all my fault that everyone is angry, when more or less it normally isn't... But thats why i hate it, because i just want everyone to be happy and to be friends! is THAT too much to ask?
I mean its one thing to talk to me about something you are frustrated about with another room mate... because everyone knows i'm a pretty good mediator, and usually the problems get resolved if i just mention something... Anyhow... on to why this is relavant in any way. Yesterday afternoon i got a call from Serena (old room mate and one of my BEEESSSSSTTTTTEEESSTT friends) saying that she had just had a talk with her Stake President who let her know that MY parents had called the missionary council place and told them that she hadn't been honest on her papers and wasn't out of debt and that she shouldn't go on a mission. okay... now... THAT IS NOT COOL! i didn't ask them to do this, i didnt even KNOW that they had done this! So now i feel awful because there are angry feelings, and i'm more or less the cause of them...
You see, i didn't think to involve my parents really in this little venture of mine and serena's (we bought a time share that we can't afford... it SUCKS... royally) so when they asked for information on it, because i felt it wasn't any of their business i more or less was very VAGUE in my retelling. And apparently from what i said, they are going on the assumption that Serena is a horrible person, and is using me and lying, and basically a manipulative bitch... WHICH IS SO NOT RIGHT!! I don't know how to explain how angry their accusations are making me without ending up in tears... which happened this morning. My dad woke me up and was like 'we know that serena is doing this, and its not fair to you... shes a lies to you, she blah blah blah (bad stuff about serena)' and i NEVER wanted to paint serena this way, I tried to protect her from my parents angryness, but apparently they saw that as her not wanting to confront them, and being a coward... and SHE'S NOT!! i didn't want angry people in my house... and so i told serena just to stay in her room and i would take care of my parents... and they are now calling her a coward... and i just can't handle the contention!! UUUGH!!! i just feel like crying and not leaving my house until the everyone agrees to be happy and love eachother!!

ALRIGHT!! on to happier subjects!!
i got a new KITTY!! his name is Fred Weasley!! look! they LOOK ALIKE!!



Yeah, my kitty is so gosh darn CUTE!! and he's cuddly... and he is a good snuggler in my bed... because he doesn't take too much room! the only problem is that he's not a huge fan of settling down until he is GOOD and READY... which means his collar with the bell on it... doesn't stay on during the night... uugh *jingle jingle jingle... (rustle of paper) jingle jingle jingle*

if you have the chance go see Get Smart, its a HILARIOUS movie... i love it... i about died laughing so hard... WAHAHAHA


And yet again... thanks for listening to my rant!